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#715 #11:8:2020 An open letter! Dear zindagi, Thank you for everyth…

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2020-08-11
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#715 #11:8:2020 An open letter! Dear zindagi, Thank you for everything! Starting from flourishing family, great childhood friends, beautiful memories, 1 desert mein 2 saal, socially traditionally evolved Islampur, anis, viveksathis, media folks to Nirmanee’s and many more more along the way! It’s somehow the gift of community that I belong to! Everytime somehow something push me to go ahead, keep exploring folks, communities and the important English no extra emotional attachment that might have hold me! Now it might feel it’s my failure of not having special one but looking at the number of friends, besties, I doubt it. Rather somehow it was my choice! Every tender choice that we make in young age today, either give you pain today or someday in future! That also might be the reason I am connected to flourishing communities around me. So, what’s it that made me like this? My innocence, quality of ignoring wrong things, concentrating on good ones and getting the best out of situation! माझे भोलेपण, few caring ones have always told me to buckle up, be neat and tidy, “see they are using you”, might be. Sometimes saying yes to everything has brought me in terrific situations. What are the things to settle down later pretty good. Perseverance, hardwork, innovation, my habit of exploring, keep learning and many such more have contributed to a very great extent. My experiments of social disengagement have started bearing fruits now. Entanglements of likes, Comments, views, who has seen it, who has liked it are starting to detach now! The tumblr blog has a round 715 post now. The case is the desire to share something often ends up in endless scrolling through feed, just to be away from boredom. Now I share what I think without caring about likes, views, and comments and what others will think. This just helps me to think more extensively about what I write. That’s true gift in this social media age. It’s your choice whether you really wish to give yourself this amazing gift! In short, I can say, “I tried to be myself without shaping myself in one of the socially acceptable moulds. Dear Sanky, it’s hard to be alone, but it all about the things that matter the most at the end of the day and that should matter the most whole day! Last few days I have been trying to confine my mobile screen time under 3 hours but it’s hard and I will surely do it! At the end, I feel we are entangling ourselves in the shell of individualism, confining us to what matters most today to me. To compensate the basic human tendency of being social, we engage in social media, implanting the pseudo feeling of being social. Somehow we suppress the values that popup few times, keeping us away from flourishing, the genuine happiness, the beautiful social bonds and a sense of community learning just like the snail in shell! So after these what I really want to do: ->lead meaningful exploration of my purpose ->do what matters the most ->make aware seemingly painful choices Looking through different perspectives and paradigms, we can see that the journey is beautiful and pain is just the illusion! That’s it! Thank you for making me aware of all this and wish me best love that I will have wisdom to make the meaningful choices! Thank you "Dear Zindagi”…!❣️ #Sanky_Writes #Morning_diaries #6am_diary #TheUltimateWisdom #MyLearningsTillDate #11:8:2020::8:33:am

Tags: #life, #self-reflection, #love